CLASSES FOR MEN

Couple of weeks ago as I prepared for my trip, I was clearing work emails and found this:-

(Women In Charge Of Everything)

Is proud to announce the opening of its
EVENING CLASSES FOR MEN!
OPEN TO MEN ONLY
ALL ARE WELCOME

Note: due to the complexity and level of difficulty, each course will accept a maximum of eight participants

The course covers two days, and topics covered in this course include:

DAY ONE

HOW TO FILL ICE CUBE TRAYS
Step by step guide with slide presentation

TOILET ROLLS- DO THEY GROW ON THE HOLDERS?
Roundtable discussion

DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LAUNDRY BASKET & FLOOR
Practice with laundry basket (Pictures and graphics)

DISHES & SILVERWARE;
DO THEY LEVITATE/FLY TO KITCHEN SINK
OR DISHWASH BY THEMSELVES?
Debate among a panel of experts.

REMOTE CONTROL
Losing the remote control – Help line and support groups

LEARNING HOW TO FIND THINGS
Starting with looking in the right place
Instead of turning the house upside down while screaming –
Open forum

DAY TWO

EMPTY MILK CARTONS;
DO THEY BELONG IN THE FRIDGE OR THE BIN?
Group discussion and role play

HEALTH WATCH;
BRINGING HER FLOWERS IS NOT HARMFUL TO YOUR HEALTH
PowerPoint presentation

REAL MEN ASK FOR DIRECTIONS WHEN LOST
Real life testimonial from the one man who did

IS IT GENETICALLY IMPOSSIBLE TO SIT QUIETLY
AS SHE PARALLEL PARKS?
Driving simulation

LIVING WITH ADULTS;
BASIC DIFFERENCES BETWEEN
YOUR MOTHER AND YOUR PARTNER
Online class and role playing

HOW TO BE THE IDEAL SHOPPING COMPANION
Relaxation exercises, meditation and breathing techniques

REMEMBERING IMPORTANT DATES
& CALLING WHEN YOU’RE GOING TO BE LATE
Bring your calendar or PDA to class

GETTING OVER IT;
LEARNING HOW TO LIVE WITH BEING WRONG ALL THE TIME
Individual counsellors available

My husband was laughing out loud when he read it … probably coz he relates to a couple of them especially the empty milk cartons one but in our household coz we don’t drink milk, so it’s empty juice cartons. Honestly though, other than that, he was made for me 🙂

Namaste From Nawan Nagar

Am in town today so dropping by an internet cafe where the connection is faster and better to make a quick update post.  No pictures coz there isn’t anything I can connect my camera to the computer :p

India’s been good so far. The village I’m in is really conservative so I’m in a Punjabi suit all the time, got to keep my head covered and all 🙂 Most of the villagers don’t even look me in the face!!  That’s how conservative they are.  I haven’t met another Chinese since I arrived either so needless to say, I stick out.  Really gives you a different perspective. The villagers don’t speak any English at all soI spent most of the time with the other foreigners. So much so I don’t feel like I’m in India at all :p

I’m surviving India though.  I’m loving the food, learning to sleep without a heater, yes, it’s totally possible and basically enjoying myself thoroughly 🙂

Till my next update, take care y’all!!!

Children and Festivities

It’s my first week in India and everyone should be getting ready to usher in the new year of the Ox.  It isn’t the first Chinese New Year I’ve missed.  Had missed a couple when I had to go back to Perth for uni but as I get older I learn to appreciate the festivities more.  It’s a time to hang out with family and friends … basically time to remember what counts in life 🙂

And last Christmas showed me what really makes the festivities more fun – CHILDREN!!  I mean they’re the ones that gets the coolest presents and without them, what excuse would we have to play with dolls that eat and poop and Lego trains 🙂

Wonder what the year of the Ox holds for me?  Since I’m born in the year of the Rabbit, it’s suppose to be a stable one but we know already, my life is filled with changes happening everywhere 🙂 so whether you believe in horoscopes or not, here’s my warmest wishes for the year of the Ox filled with loads of happines and children with cool pressies!!!

Off to India

I’ve been telling everyone that I’m going to Chandigarh but in fact I’ll be something like 2hours away from India’s most organised city. In an area called Nawan Nagar. You can’t find it on a map but it’s in the Panchkula, Haryana area, which you can find on the map. So it’s safe to say where I’ll be heading it’s going to be pretty rural. I’m not sure what to expect or if I’ll even last 8 weeks yet strangely, I’m terribly excited.

I haven’t done anything like that my whole life. Go outside my comfort zone and push my own limits. It is something I’ve wanted to do for a long time now though. I remember having graduated from uni and wanting to do something like this but I knew my parents wouldn’t have it. Now in my 30s, my parents would prefer I wouldn’t do something like this either but they also know that I’ve gain a little bit more in the last decade or so :p It also helps that my husband is going to be with me and we actually know people where we’re going. So I was real thankful at how my calmly my parents took to my plans about going. I could sense their worry and wondered will parents ever stop worrying about their children … I think, no. That made me realise I do have the coolest parents around 🙂 They didn’t appear too worried and calmly discussed the things I needed to do to get ready.

I’ll be flying off this Friday night and I’m not sure if I’ve got everything … like I said, I’ve never done anything like this before so I can only plan as far as my imagination and common sense take me to. I’m bringing my computer with me and will try and blog from there but I’m not sure what the schedule will be like and if connections in rural India are any reliable. So if you don’t hear from me from 17th January, don’t worry, I’ll be back 14th March with updates galore.

Till then, everyone take care and be safe!!

P/S: I’ve scheduled 8 random post that I’ve done up, they’ll come on every Wednesday so you, my lovely family and friends, won’t get bored when you check in 🙂 See you all in 8 weeks!!

Little Black Dresses

What happens when you’ve worked together for over 2 years? Some days you come to work dressed alike. Who would have thought we’d wake up in our separate homes and feel like putting on a little black dress today?

Thanks to Mr Head of SFC who took this photo with his spanking new Panasonic camera or we wouldn’t have this picture for posterity 🙂

Project Tan-MacLaughlan First Home

There’s discussion, very very initial discussions about my husband and me getting our own place. It’s the next stage of ‘growing up’ that in all honesty, I’m a tad scared of :p I have issues with long term commitments … yes, it took me a while to do the whole marriage thing so this long term mortgage with the home is a really quite scary … but that’s what grown ups do, right? So I’m sucking it up and trying to get into the swing of things 🙂 By that, I mean I’m checking out what kind of décor I’d like to have, flooring, colours, themes … coz these are the things I can get excited about. More than all of these, I love researching storage spaces!!

The other thing I know is that I want mirrors, lots of mirrors and photos 🙂 My partner-in-crime, Daph reckons I should be looking at houses before the interiors :p I agree, totally agree but this is what will motivate me to start looking at flats. I’m hoping for one in a quiet area, close to parks where we can take walks and possibly not too far from public transport.

So while I wait for the next HDB sale thingie that they do ever so often, I’m asking around:-

  1. What would you do differently about your home?
  2. What is the best thing you did in your home?

Daph’s advice to me is make sure I have enough storage space 🙂 Totally agree with her again. No wonder we make good partners 😉 I wish Singapore had The Container Store franchise. I love how they have a storage solution for everything and I literally mean EVERYTHING. In the US, it’s one of the stores I could spend hours in. Other than storage, what’s your advice?

 

Back In Tokyo

Not me but Jules, who by now should be snuggled in her bed in Tokyo since it’s all chilly over there. In about a week and a half, I’ll be freezing my little tushie off in India too. Meanwhile, here’s some warm pictures of us having dinner at Cedele (which is one of our favourite places to hang out … strangely we’re always there when it’s the 4 of us) … just us generally having fun making a fool of ourselves:-

This time we learnt how to make take-ko (think that’s hokkien for pole) Tessycat finish her meal – don’t feed her the meal before.

I’ve eaten with her numerous times now and this is the FIRST time, she’s actually finished her entire meal and even had dessert. This has NEVER happened before and all because Mr Tan aka Tessycat’s other half didn’t feed her lunch 🙂

We also tried taking a picture of ourselves but when it’s 4 people, it’s not the most ideal for self shot moments.

Then there was the brilliant thought of using the self timer. It took us long to decide how to set up the camera and even longer to actually set it up.

It was pretty worth while since the picture of us came out quite nicely. Thank goodness for digital cameras, I say 🙂

So till Julia’s next trip back home or till the three of us find ourselves in Tokyo, this will have to do. Write or blog soon Jules, we miss you already!!!

Australia

I don’t know what’s everyone’s beeswax about Australia but I loved it!! All 165minutes of it. I didn’t even feel the length of the film. Alright alright,my husband reckons I’d be a biased opinion since I’m a big fan of Baz Lurhmann and I do like Hugh Jackman and Nicole Kidman too. I do agree with him and there’s good reason why I’m a fan and an objective one at that. Mr Lurhmann took a simple story, picked the right cast, filled it with charming Ozzie moments and made a tale that brought you into another world for a bit. That’s good film making to me.

It takes a good ole Aussie bloke to show Hollywood how to make an epic film that isn’t laden with overly dramatic moments and chilled enough not to take itself too seriously, albeit maintaining a strong message that one day we all have to apologise for our own narrowed mindedness.

Set in the sometimes harsh Northern Territories, the cinematographer, Mandy Walker did an amazing job at making barren land look alluring. Of course, me being the reverse sexist that I am, it helps that she’s a sheila 🙂 makes me have that much more respect for her. I do have a thing for women who hold their own in male dominated areas. So hats off to Madeline Albright, Aung San Su Kyi, Mother Theresa too … just to name a few.

Back to the film, it wouldn’t be objective if I only gushed about the positives bits. So there were a few moments that bothered me, like the EXTREME close up of the leads kissing. I don’t think I need to see their lips lock that clearly :p and there were moments that the surreal look didn’t quite work for me. It is a Baz Lurhmann film so I half expected them already but I wasn’t completely sold on them for the genre.

I can’t complain about the casting though. I can’t think of any other Aussie actors to play Lady Sarah Ashley and Drover. Naomi Watts and Russell Crowe would have made it a completely different film 🙂 The little boy, Brandon Picked-Out-Of-Nowhere Walters was amazing as the half Aboriginal, half Caucasian Nullah.

Look at those eyes, you can’t tell me, you aren’t slightly intrigued 🙂 He was really good, acting against big wigs like Nicole Kidman and Hugh Jackman and completely holding his own. I loved his little Ozzie accent too. Too too cute 🙂 The actor who played his grandfather blew me away though.

David Gulpilil is the quintessential Aboriginal and has played many on screen but his portrayal of King George, little Nullah’s grandfather is probably my favourite Aboriginal character to date. Watching him against the Australian outback, reminded me that humanity is but a small small part of the universe. We tend to forget that. With our technology and politics, we think we’re in control of everything and ever so often forget that we don’t control everything, hardly at all, we don’t control anything.

So yes, you can say I was touched by the film. More than all the metaphysical subtexts though, I was reminded why the Australian subculture of ‘being chill’ is my big take away from my time spent there. I love how they can see the humour in the most serious of things … I’m not talking about disrespectful wise cracks that border on the British dry humour or American in-your-face jokes that takes the mickey out of other people, I love how Ozzies laugh at themselves in a harmless way .

Don’t get me wrong, I love the Brit dry humour and American in-your-face jokes when they’re laughing about themselves too, I’m big into making fun of myself so I do miss harmless Aussie fun a lot. Sometimes I think even they’ve been too swept away by the Pomps and the Yanks that in trying to emulate them, the Aussies have forgotten what they’re really charming at. That’s why I so enjoyed the film, Baz Lurhmann shows us Australian-ness at it’s best and manages to remind us that if we don’t open our minds, one day we’ll have to hang our heads low and apologise for keeping them closed.